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THE INGREDIENT OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

The secret of getting along in marriage lies in two people applying the principle embodied in this verse from the Bible: “And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise” (Luke 6:31). This is a workable formula! And amazingly, it is easier to carry out than to trying to figure out the other person. Scott and Ann found this out. Like most people you know, each longed to be appreciated and have their viewpoint respected. They discovered that the rule Jesus gave is just as effective today as when He spoke it. Scott sought counsel because he was puzzled over his unhappy marriage. He and Ann, his wife, never exchanged harsh words. He kept his complaints against her to himself. He had looked at her personality and her idiosyncrasies from all angles and tried to do what would bring a balance between them. They never argued. But with all their efforts at adjustment, there was little happiness. Their approach did not work because they simply could not figure each other o...

SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE: Competing Spouse. A True Story

When the Dolans, a Christian couple, came to see me, they had not spoken to each other for several weeks. The tension had become unbearable. The issue was over dancing in gym class. Hal Dolan had said flatly that their son should not participate. Melissa Dolan had agreed in front of her husband, but privately gave their son permission to participate. Hal found out about it through a conversation with a neighbor who had visited the gym class. That night at dinner Mr. Dolan asked his son Dave, “What do you do during gym class?” ”I study in the library” he lied. Then Mr. Dolan told them what he had heard. There was a bitter fight that night. Hal ordered Dave to obey him. Dave refused. His mother backed Dave. Mr. Dolan threatened to leave and Melissa told him to go. His bluff was called. He didn’t leave, but they hadn’t spoken since. It was impossible to talk to them together. One contradicted the other. After many sessions, it became clear that this incident was only the last straw. Acros...

DO YOU KNOW THE ILLNESS GOTTEN FROM CORONAVIRUS?

Prior to the new disastrous and currently, the most deathly of all viruses due to its lack of vaccine, had being the like of LASSA FEVER, SERS, BIRDFLUE, AIDS, etc. But during those periods, the death rate and numbers of persons infected was not as alarming as it is with the CORONAVIRUS saga. Over 4,000 deaths and over 80,000 persons had been infected and are under the torture of this virus and every day since its inception in China and the rest of Asia at least more than 9-10 persons contact the virus every day. After several research and debate on the outbreak and considering the situation a global threat, the world Health Organization(WHO), UNICEF and medical organizations has it that the resultant "illness" caused by the virus to be called, COVID19. Preventive Measures against CORONAVIRUS Not until a vaccine or cure is discovered we are all advised by W.H.O to avoid: 1. Touching our faces with dirty hands 2. Wash our hands every 15-20 minutes 3. Avoid contact...