THE FESTIVE MESSAGE:
The drama will soon start!

 
Many people are already in the village as some will still be traveling between now and 31st December. Wives and co -wives brouhaha will soon start. Who will sweep the compound and who will cook for everyone will soon be the topic of "hide my identity"
 
To those wives who believe they have made it in life, the pepper them gang, ndi let me go and show them who the senior wife is*, you better be humble and allow peace.
 
Ndi my husband is the first born, eldest son, senior, richest etc that will not see any need to respect other wives*, you want to be served and worshiped, you won't ever greet others unless they greet you first because you are the Lionness of the tribe of her husband's kingdom.....you better be humble and allow peace.
 
To those husbands* who see suffering, deprivation, humiliation and marginalization as wife materialism, you will take your wife to the village to cook for the entire village, go to the stream very early morning to fill the whole tank, serve all the visitors that will troop in and out all through the entire festive period, and never leave the kitchen or have time for herself and children just to proof her wife materialism to your people you better receive sense. 
 
Mother in-laws*, who won't let their son's wives drink water and drop the cup because you are the agada gbachiri uzo 1 of your son's life, the controller-general of his affairs....you better cool down and allow peace so that everyone can be happy.
 
To the slay wives*, ndi "honey this village is too hot, there's no light here, I can't stay with your mother, your siblings are intruding my privacy, mtcheww, you better cool down and enjoy family because family is everything.
 
And to the low self esteem wives, ndi inferiority complex, who thinks that every cloth her co wife wears or every food she cooks is to intimidate her because she and her husband does not have money,* you better wise up and stop wallowing in self pity and enjoy this Christmas with an open mind.
A lot of *"hide my identity"* comes up after Christmas travelling but if we can just adjust a little and accommodate each other with the love of God guiding our hearts, we can live in peace and unity.
Christmas is sweet when spent with friends and family
Family is everything.
 

HAPPY NEW YEAR AND A WONDERFUL NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL!

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