RELATIONSHIP: Some Powerful Questioning that Capture a Man's Heart.

March 30, 2020

Is your guy feeling it? How to use powerful questioning to capture his heart forever.

Would you like to put your relationship on a definite path to bliss but you're not sure where to start?

If you want to learn how to make a man feel loved, it's simpler than you think. It begins and ends with learning how a man defines feeling loved

Here are 5 powerful questions to ask your man to make him feel truly loved:

1. How was your day?

In the craziness of life, it's easy to get lost in our own stuff and overlook how our partner is doing.

When he gets home from work — after he settles in, ask him about his day. Listen for his accomplishments and praise them. Tell him you're proud of him, cheer him on, or talk through a problem that came up.

The message: I care about your dat. I want to hear about what matters to you about it. Know that I am here at the end of it all to be your champion. You're my everyday hero.

2. "What can I do to make your day great?"

Make every day extraordinary, not just Valentine's Day!

Often, it is the small things you can do for your significant other that can make a difference. It could be 30 minutes of alone time, an errand, a drink, something delicious to eat, a massage, or some other pleasurable activity.

Keep out a love coupon book to remind yourself of this question.

The message: let take care of you as you take care of me. You are special to me.

3. What's going on for you?

When you sense unusual quietness or frustration from your guy, stop. Pay attention. Seek to know what he is experiencing in that moment, without judgment. When he responds, say, "Tell me more."

Convey that you know he's got it under control. Still, you are there for him.

The message: I notice, and I am listening.what you're feeling and thinking is important to me and I care enough to inquired.

4. How can I better support you in your life?

Do you stand by your man and his activities? He wants a woman who will encourage his start-up business, hobbies, guys night out, or going to the gym.

Maybe he'll tell you that you've been nagging him about being out every Monday or undermining his confidence. He might ask you to take on more at home temporarily to alleviate his stress.

All in all, he's more likely to be a success when he feels taken seriously and that you're on his team.

The message: what you do interests. I respect you for who you are and I support your pursuits, even if they are not my thing. I have your back.

5. How can I love you best?

Once you've mastered the previous questions, ask him this one and let him define for himself how he wants to be loved. Nobody knows better than your man how you can love him most.

Asking this question cultivates trust, deepens your connection, and empowers him. The bottom line is, you won't know until you ask.

The message: I see you as a unit person, with your own needs, and I honour them. I couldn't love you any more than I do right now.

I leave you with this challenge: start posing these simple yet meaningful questions and watch how they strengthen your bond and redefine your relationship.

Then, listen for more opportunities for powerful questioning and grab hold of them. Your partner will receive your heartfelt messages, and you'll be well on your way to making him feel eternally loved.

Of course, these questions work for any relationship. Men, women, and children alike want to be heard, understood, and loved.